Marriage...

Its a long long time since my last post. Its not that I dint want to or dint have the time. Its mainly the content or lack of it.
So, here's something that I can discuss with you - Does 'Marriage' bring with it complications which outweigh 'Love' between partners?
If it is great to be in love and good to live-in, why is marriage seen as only a commitment (of course I am referring to those who think in that way and they make most part of humankind, these days!)

Just like love is synonymous with heart-breaks, marriage is synonymous with arguments and conflicts.
Sometimes, after a small argument or mis-understanding or difference in opinion, I wonder if it is a healthy sign of two persons bonding together or getting away from each other. And after a heated discussion, I get into the contemplative mode if I did the right thing by getting into a commitment without giving too much of thought and was only led by feelings at that moment. I know, this is a dangerous sign and shouldn't nurture this beyond that level. But, what if it is true? I am scared of the answer! I hope this thought is only momentary and gets drowned in the long run.

Obama's Nobel Peace Prize

Today's breaking news : The Norwegian Nobel Committee says US President Barack Obama has won the 2009 Nobel Peace Prize for "his extraordinary efforts to strengthen international diplomacy and cooperation between people"

Q is : Is the Nobel prize sponsored by White House?

A nice song

Fell deeply and madly in love with this song, this week - beautiful lyrics and amazing music.
the singers have done an awesome job.
About :
Tamil movie: Ninaithale inikkum (remake of Malayalam flick 'Classmates')
Music: Vijay Antony
Cast: Prithviraj, Karthik Kumar, Sakthi Vasu, Priyamani, Srinath, Bhagyaraj (this song is on Sakthi Vasu & his lady love)
Let me find out who the singers and lyricist are...
Youtube:
Maybe it was difficult to do justice to this song during picturisation and Sakthi's expressions donot help much...

Anyway, copied the lyrics here
Azhaghai Pookkuthe – Ninaithale Inikkum

Azhaghai Pookuthey, Sugamai Thakkuthey Adada Kadhalai Sollamal Kollamal Ullangal Pandaduthey Azhaghai Pookuthey, Sugamai Thakkuthey Adada Kadhalai Sollamal Kollamal Ullangal Pandaduthey Asaiyai Pesida Vartai Moathum Arugilae Parthathum Mounam Paesum Kathalan Kai Chirai Kannum Naeram Meendum Oar Karuvarai Kondathalae Kanai Neram Azhaghai Pookuthey, Sugamai Thakkuthey Adada Kadhalai Sollamal Kollamal Ullangal Pandaduthey Kadavulin Kanavil Iruvarum Irupomae Oh Oh Kavithaiyin Vadivin Vaazhnthiden Inaipomae Oh Oh Iruvarum Nadanthal Oru Nidal Parpomae Oh Oh Oru Nilal Adhile Iruvarum Therivomae Oh Oh Sila Naeram Sirikiraen Sila Naeram Azhughiraen Unnaale.. Azhaghai Pookuthey, Sugamai Thakkuthey Adada Kadhalai Sollamal Kollamal Ullangal Pandaduthey Oru Murai Ninaithaen Uyir Varai Izhuthayae Oh Oh Marumurai Ninaithaen Manathinil Vadaithayae Oh Oh Siru Thuli Vizhunthu Ninaikudam Aanayae Oh Oh Araikanam Thiruvil Varaivida Seidayae Oh Oh Nee Ellam Nodi Mudhal Uyir Ellam Jedathai Poal Aavaenae.. Azhaghai Pookuthey, Sugamai Thakkuthey Adada Kadhalai Sollamal Kollamal Ullangal Pandaduthey (2) Asaiyai Pesida Vartai Moathum Arugilae Parthathum Mounam Paesum Kathalan Kai Chirai Kannum Naeram Meendum Oar Karuvarai Kondathalae Kanai Neram

Relationship & expectations

How to be in a relationship without expectations? This was the discussion I had with my colleagues over tea time. Everyone except me were arguing that it is not possible to lead a life without expectations. One even went to the extent to say that his goal in life is to have expectations (read as results).
We humans have got into a situation where we cannot think of doing an activity without knowing the result, forget about expectations! In a result oriented society, everything is based on outcome and we are trained that way since our birth. The charm of the life is that we still continue to love or 'expected' to love and love selflessly in certain relationships. but, is that feasible? How can a person be pragmatic in everything else but in one or few relationships?
I donno.

My house...

after a longgg wait!

Will this become my home ?
Home is where the heart is :-)

Back home

I'm happy to be back in Blr, as always :)
Had a refreshing week away from the ground realities and this helped in giving a new perspective to certain things. So, I would rate this trip as good!

Well, just remembered this quote : Not taking a decision is also a decision, but many times it is not the right decision.

Q in the dream

"What is that one place I want to go and you wouldn't take me to ?"

Well, it just happened that it my early morning dream(on which I don't have any more details, obviously) I remember asking or wanting to ask this question. I don't even know to whom this question was supposed to be addressed.
All I could recollect was that I woke up wondering where I was and by instinct typed the question in the mobile so that I don't forget that interesting Q and went back to sleep soon after that.
Only when I read the note in my mobile later in the day, I recollected the incident.

hmmm... quite interesting and 'm extremely curious to know the answer and more abt the other person:-)